Advice Archives - Lynn Hayes astrology readings and writings

Astrological advice: Understanding a son’s mental illness

P writes:

My 29 year old son developed mental illness that has become worse over the years. He had suffered a severe head injury at 21 years old and then started taking hallucinogenic drugs but he was starting to change and experience minor anger and anxiety before that, around 18 years old..

I did not understand and recognize it despite my husband being diagnosed with mental illness too. I have not seen nor spoken with my son for several years as […]

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By Lynn Hayes|2023-06-16T08:36:20-04:00June 16th, 2023|Advice|5 Comments

Friday advice column: Finding the willpower to make life changes

M.S. writes:

After years of attempting and giving it my best shot, I have not been able to reverse my diabetes because I cannot stick to the needed lifestyle changes. I have signed up for expensive programs and have had success but all too easily fall back into my old ways of enjoying food; sugary soft drinks, pastries, pastas, carbs.

I understand the ramifications of what I am doing to my body and I have had therapy about eating. I am not an overeater, I just eat the wrong things. Does […]

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By Lynn Hayes|2023-06-09T10:24:07-04:00June 9th, 2023|Advice|5 Comments

How to face an uncertain future

Quite a few of you have messaged and emailed me and commented about so much pain in your personal lives.

We are all rendered a bit raw by the pandemic. Suddenly the avenues of escapism are closed to us – the methods we used to use to try to transcend our anxieties and other emotions are no longer available. So we are locked in, not only with our families and housemates, but also with ourselves. Feelings from which we used to be able to hide are now impossible to ignore.

The transit of […]

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By Lynn Hayes|2020-07-16T11:12:39-04:00July 15th, 2020|Advice, Life|6 Comments

From the advice column: I’m surrounded by malicious people

Q: I am really struggling against all of the odds. Lots of malicious gossips, malicious people in general that I have to live among, give treatment to and build my business, which is virtually impossible and I’m running out of money. If you can see what steps may be best for me to make regarding business or earnings that would be a great help.

A: You are what we call a “Double Capricorn” – your Sun is in Capricorn and you have Capricorn rising, so the sign of Capricorn is very strong […]

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By Lynn Hayes|2018-09-27T08:50:47-04:00September 27th, 2018|Advice|5 Comments

Astrological advice: When will Jupiter bring me my ideal relationship?

Each week I answer a reader question using their astrological chart. Because this service is designed to help as many people as possible, preference is given to questions which will have benefit and interest others. If you have a burning question you think others will share, please email me and it will be considered!

Q:
Jupiter has been transiting my seventh house since October 2017, I was expecting for a relationship to appear in my life. I was sure that just like Meghan Markle fell into Harry’s life, someone would fall […]

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By Lynn Hayes|2019-11-10T19:39:06-05:00August 30th, 2018|Advice, Relationships|4 Comments

From the advice column: Why have the past few years been so hard?

Q:

For the past 5 years, my life has had SO many problems – life and health. Almost as if the Universe keeps saying – “But wait – am throwing THIS in your lifepath – let’s see how you handle this one.”

Financial (bankruptcy in 2013), relationships strains, and a lot of health issues/problems – 5 surgeries in different parts of my body in 5 years and just got thrown another two more that I will have to deal with in the very near future – (the plethora of medical expenses […]

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By Lynn Hayes|2022-09-01T14:33:23-04:00August 11th, 2018|Advice|1 Comment

Astrological advice column: Where and when to relocate

If you have a burning question and need astrological advice here’s where to send it. Preference will be given for questions that will likely help others as well.

Q:
We are in the process of selling our home and getting ready to downsize now that the children have scattered all over the world.

My questions to you are the following;

1. How can we best find a location for our next abode that will map to our astrological charts? We will not have unlimited funds and are looking for a place where our […]

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By Lynn Hayes|2018-08-04T08:15:39-04:00August 4th, 2018|Advice|3 Comments

From the Advice Column: What’s wrong with my mom?

I realized I hadn’t posted anything from the advice column for quite some time. I’m very interested in the way health issues manifest in the birthchart, and this was a good example.

Q: My mother has been really nervous, lately — and her jaws are tense. She has generally been in good health — with the exception of having to take thyroid medicine for the past year — and once in a while suffering from a migraine headache.

All of a sudden beginning last month every joint in her body aches, and […]

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By Lynn Hayes|2023-11-21T10:45:18-05:00February 9th, 2008|Advice|Comments Off

From the advice column: Integrating opposites

Q: I am Capricorn sun with Cancer moon. This is polarity, and yes my life has been full of utter polarity. Homeless one minute and £30,000 in the bank the next. I have looked on the net for advice to people who hold the opposites in their charts, but never found much that was helpful Hold it all together is what you would say. It has made me very strong. The two solstices are very powerful times for me.

A: Most people do have opposites in their chart, so we all must learn at some point or another to integrate the […]

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By Lynn Hayes|2023-11-20T08:09:05-05:00October 22nd, 2007|Advice|0 Comments

Questions and answers

Two things I have learned in my life:

1. If you have to ask the question, the answer is no.

and

2. If you don’t know what to do, it’s not yet time to make a decision.

In my younger days I, like many others, sought the advice of psychics, tarot readers, palmists, past life regressionists, spiritual advisers. I desperately wanted to be told what to do. Should I stay with this guy? Would that other one ever love me? Would I ever get a job that I wanted?

Now I’m the adviser that people come to with these questions. […]

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